Why Is The Gusher Orgasm So Misunderstood?

It is really tempting to rush the subject of the G-Spot orgasm! But as we should not rush in trying to achieve it, (we have to understand it and nurture it) we also need to take our time to understand the aspects surrounding it. 
So instead of telling you all to rush to bed tonight and assume the position, I am going to give you a little more explanation into the reasons why 'the gusher has been so misunderstood.
There are two main reasons for this:

1)  The sensation prior to the G-Spot orgasm that causes 'the gusher' , or ejaculation, in women, is a feeling that we need to urinate,   According to Perry and Whipple, "Women's response to direct stimulation of the G-spot is identical to the response of males when their prostate is stimulated," .  My experience through talking to women is that most women hold back their sexual response, when they feel the sensation to urinate,out of fear of wetting on their partners. Perry theorized that this may explain why up to 25% of American females never have orgasms - they've learned early that to avoid the embarrassment of urinating during sex, they have to hold back.(this will be covered more fully in a later blog)

2)  The lack of education and information available in the past regarding this, has led to confusion.  Most women think that they have urinated.  Believe me, if you have had this experience, this is not the case. 
The myths that female ejaculation is the result of poor bladder control, or excess secretion which sweats from the vaginal walls and pools in the back of the vagina to squirt out during the strong muscle contractions of orgasm, have been proven wrong. For decades many women felt it dreadfully abnormal and tried to hide or avoid it. Physicians in their ignorance tried to cure it. By questioning many women, researchers have established that about one woman in five ejaculates (through her urethra rather than her vagina), some of the time but not always. The stimulation of the G-spot produces both her ejaculation and her deep uterine contractions.

So here is the good news... that sensation of feeling like you are going to urinate is not what you think it is... it is the beginning of something, and if you have felt that and held back, don't, that is the start of a G-Spot orgasm. I promise you that you are not about to urinate AND most of you wont experience the gusher, BUT, if you do, embrace it.... because you have just experienced an ejaculation. 

We are still at the very beginning of this discussion.  There is so much more to learn.
I am hoping someone is going to get something out of this... : )

Tomorrow is a busy day for me, so not sure if I will have time to post.  If I don't I will be here Wednesday
Happy O's everyone
Sarah